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Here are three more questions for you to answer with your partner. Follow the process to move your existing relationship closer to your ideal version. It's different than you think. Give each other 10 minutes (time this using an alarm, not by checking your watch while trying to listen) to speak and it is essential that you listen without judgement or challenging what is being said. Just listen to understanding. It is okay to mirror or paraphrase your partner.


  1. What do you think your partner expects you to contribute to the relationship?
  2. What do you expect your partner to contribute to the relationship?
  3. Analyze these gaps in order to close them.


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